So one thing that we learn is to mirror when we want to attract women. Like if a girl is interested in you then you reciprocate. On the flipside, if the girl is acting disinterested then you turn your attention away. Additionally, Nick talks about how a girl’s attraction can be represented by a bell curve. The girls attraction peaks at a certain point and if you don’t do anything about it then the girl loses interest.
Recently, I have been having issues with girls losing interest. I’ll give two examples.
I’m in college and I planned to grab lunch in the cafeteria with a girl I’m interested in. We were eating together along with a couple of her friends and mutual acquantices. At some point in the conversation the girl gets upset with me because I wont tell her something. She says that she is going to give me the silent treatment. And i make a joke about her being in time out. However, she talks to me but not with the same warmth for the rest of the lunch period.
In the second instance I was texting a girl who I think is interested in me. I tell her she should study with me at the library. She says she’ll come but just for me. She brings her friend who I think is interested in me as well. Her friend kind of dominates most of the conversation. And the girl I’m interested in gives little or no attention to me. I try engaging her a few times but she doesn’t really bite.
My question is: Am I not escalating and the girls are losing interested? Or should I just be mirroring their disinterest? Or is there some other circumstance that is contributing to them losing interest?
so i’ve been casual friends w/ that cocky ass girl for a few years.. but we’ve only been talkin on a daily basis for the past few months now.. we’ve gotten really close and we’ve maybe put eachother into a friend-zone.. but our topics of discussion are always sexual… but never about us together
she keeps telling me that she doesn’t want a friend-w/-benefits cause she now wants a steady relationship and doesn’t want to just mess around..
she asked me once if i’d feel jealous if i would get jealous if my friend-w/-benefits started talkin to other girls.. and i was like idc.. she asked this b/c that’s how she felt about her past friend.
anyway more background on this girl.. she’s super cocky..she really does think she’s one of the hottest girls around (which she is)…. but nice to people she want to be nice to.. and she’s super cool with me…(maybe too cool)
she always keeps telling me to come see her in college or if i can’t go she comes to see me.. the usual jazz… she only hangs out w/ some ppl if i m actually gonna be there…
now she has also told me about the other guys she was trying to get ina relationship with.. but didnt work out…
i m not in any way attached to this girl as in really really liking her. she keeps tellin me that she’s always craving for sexxx…. but i can’t tell if she’s hinting at me or just being extremely friendly… i just want to figure out if she playin games… or wants attention.. or relationship..?
it just annoys me sometimes if i don’t know if a girl wants me or not… i dont care either way.. but i don’t want to be left wondering…. having said that.. i’d definitely hook up with her if i could.. she’s like a 9….
Any suggestions on what i should do???
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